The beauty of authenticity

Perfection makes things look pretty, authenticity makes things beautiful.


Hey there,

Let's talk about perfection, shall we? You know, that pursuit of flawlessness that we all seem to chase at one point or another. It's like we're on this never-ending quest to make everything just right, to have every detail in place, to dot every 'i' and cross every 't'. But here's the thing I've come to realise: perfection might make things look pretty, but authenticity? Well, that's what makes things truly beautiful.

Think about it for a moment. How often do we find ourselves striving for perfection? Whether it's in our work, our relationships, or even just our day-to-day lives, we're constantly trying to mold things into this ideal image of what we think they should be. And sure, there's nothing inherently wrong with that. But here's the kicker: sometimes, in our quest for perfection, we end up missing out on the real beauty of life.

Perfectionism, my friend, can be downright exhausting. It's like we're constantly walking on this tightrope, afraid to make a single misstep for fear of messing everything up. We spend so much time and energy trying to control every little detail, trying to ensure that everything goes according to plan, that we forget to just... breathe. To relax. To let go of the reins for a moment and allow ourselves to simply be.

But here's the truth: perfectionism doesn't really let us off the hook, does it? It doesn't leave much room for error, for spontaneity, for those beautiful little moments of magic that can only happen when we let go of our need for control. Because here's the thing about mistakes: they're not the end of the world. In fact, they're often where the real magic happens.

Think about it: some of the most beautiful things in life are born out of mistakes. The happy accidents, the unexpected twists and turns, the moments when we stumble and fall only to pick ourselves back up again... those are the moments that shape us, that mold us into the people we are meant to be. And you know what? There's a certain kind of beauty in that imperfection, in those little cracks and flaws that make us uniquely us.

So here's my message for today, my friend: embrace the messiness of life. Embrace the imperfections, the mistakes, the moments when things don't quite go according to plan. Because it's in those moments that we find the true beauty of life, the authenticity that makes it all worthwhile. Perfection might make things look pretty, but authenticity? Well, that's what makes things truly beautiful.

So go ahead, my friend. Drop the ball for a minute. Let go of the need for perfection and allow yourself to simply be. Because in the end, it's not about being perfect. It's about being real. And that, my friend, is where the true beauty lies.

KERRY BEALLComment